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I Asked My Husband for Money for Office Clothes After Maternity Leave — He Replied, ‘Get a Job as a Cleaner, You Don’t Need Fancy Clothes There’

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Sometimes life hands you lemons—except mine came in the form of a careless husband. When Tyler suggested I should just become a cleaner instead of buying new clothes for work, I actually took his advice. But I twisted it in a way he never saw coming.

The hardest part about betrayal is that it always comes from the person you trust the most.

A year earlier, I had gone on maternity leave. I devoted myself completely to our son, Ethan. Late-night feedings, endless diaper changes, making sure the house stayed together, and always keeping hot meals ready for Tyler when he came home from work—I did everything.

And truthfully? I didn’t mind. Being a mom was exhausting, yes, but it was also rewarding in a way my office job never was. Ethan’s first little smiles, his giggles that filled the room—I can’t even explain how much they meant to me.

But after a year, it was time for me to return to work. I was actually excited. I missed talking to adults about something other than mashed carrots and baby naps. I wanted to feel like more than “just a mom.”

That’s when the problem showed up.

One evening, as I was folding laundry, I told Tyler, “None of my work clothes fit anymore.” Ethan was finally asleep, and Tyler sat on the couch scrolling through his phone.

“What do you mean?” he asked without even looking up.

I held up a pencil skirt that used to fit me perfectly. “My body changed after having your child, Tyler. Nothing fits me right anymore.”

“So? Just wear something else.”

“That’s what I’m trying to say. I don’t have anything else. I need to buy a few new outfits for the office.” I sat down beside him. “I was hoping we could use some of our savings for that.”

That’s when he looked at me like I was asking for a yacht instead of a couple of blouses.

“Do you have any idea how much daycare is going to cost?” he said sharply. “Plus all the baby expenses? Your job barely covers those costs as it is.”

“It’s just a few outfits, Tyler. I can’t exactly go back to work in pajamas.”

And then he said it.

“Your job costs us too much anyway. Just get a job as a cleaner. You don’t need fancy clothes for that.”

I froze. A cleaner? Did he really just say that to me?

I stared at the man whose clothes I washed, whose meals I cooked, whose child I stayed up all night for while he went to work without a single interruption.

“A cleaner?” I repeated in disbelief.

He just shrugged. “It’s practical. Better hours for childcare too.”

I wanted to scream. I wanted to remind him of everything I’d given up for our family. But instead, I smiled sweetly and said, “You’re right, babe. I’ll figure something out.”

And I did.

Just not in the way he expected.

I wasn’t going to beg for respect or a couple of new shirts. Instead, I followed his advice. I applied for a cleaning job—at his office.

Tyler worked at a big, fancy law firm downtown. One day, scrolling online, I saw they needed part-time cleaning staff. I nearly laughed out loud. The universe had just handed me my plan.

Within a week, I got the job. The evening shift. Perfect. My mom agreed to watch Ethan while I worked—she never liked Tyler anyway, so when I told her the plan, she smirked and said, “About time he gets a taste of his own medicine.”

And the best part? Tyler had no idea. He thought I was taking night classes to “improve my skills.” He didn’t even bother asking for details.

For three weeks, I worked quietly, avoiding the floor with his office. But then came the perfect moment.

Tyler was hosting an important client meeting on a Wednesday evening. My cleaning schedule just happened to place me on his floor that night.

I walked into his office in my gray uniform, hair tied back, pushing my squeaky cleaning cart. He was mid-sentence, talking confidently to a group of clients.

“And the quarterly projections show—” He froze, eyes widening as they landed on me.

His voice cracked. “The projections show that… excuse me just a moment.”

I pretended not to notice and kept working, emptying the trash can by his desk.

“Marilyn?” he finally choked out. “What are you doing here?”

I turned, smiled politely, and said, “Oh, hello, sir. Didn’t mean to interrupt your meeting.”

The blood drained from his face. His colleagues looked back and forth between us, confused. One of them, who had met me at a holiday party, asked, “Wait—this is your wife? What’s she doing here?”

Tyler stammered, “I… I don’t know. Marilyn, what are you doing?”

I stood tall, smiling as if I wasn’t standing there in a cleaner’s uniform. “Oh, I just took my husband’s amazing advice! He said instead of spending money on new clothes to return to my old job, I should become a cleaner. No dress code to worry about here. Honestly, it’s been pretty educational.”

The room went silent.

His boss, Mr. Calloway, frowned. “Your husband told you to be a cleaner instead of returning to your career?”

I gave a little shrug. “Well, he said my previous job was too expensive for us because of childcare and clothes. He thought this would be more practical.”

Mr. Calloway’s expression hardened as he looked at Tyler.

Tyler leaned toward me, whispering, “Can we discuss this at home? Not now.”

“Of course,” I said cheerfully. “I’d never want to ruin your meeting. I’ll just finish up and leave you all to it. Have a wonderful evening, gentlemen.”

I pushed my cart toward the door, but before I left, I heard Mr. Calloway mutter, “Let’s take a fifteen-minute break.”

Tyler was in trouble, and we both knew it.

But I wasn’t finished.

Over the next few weeks, I worked extra diligently. I always timed it so I cleaned his office while coworkers were still around. Whenever someone asked, I’d smile and thank Tyler for his “brilliant career advice.”

One night at home, Tyler snapped. “This has gone on long enough. You’ve made your point. This is humiliating.”

“Humiliating for who?” I asked. “I’m just doing what you suggested.”

“You know I didn’t mean it like that,” he insisted. “I was stressed about money.”

“Funny,” I said with a laugh, “how your stress matters but mine never does.”

What Tyler didn’t know was that while I was cleaning, I was also connecting. Carol from HR had caught me reading a legal brief one evening and struck up a conversation. When I told her about my background in corporate communications, she was shocked.

“We actually have an opening in marketing,” she said. “The hours and pay are good. You’d be a great fit. Interested?”

Interested? I was beyond ready.

So when the next company event rolled around, I showed up in a brand-new navy dress, bought with my advance from my new position: Communications Director. A role that paid more than Tyler’s.

The look on his face when I walked in—priceless. He stared like he’d seen a ghost as Carol announced, “Everyone, meet our newest team member. Marilyn will be joining the marketing department Monday.”

The smirks around the room told me everyone understood the irony. Tyler wanted the floor to swallow him whole.

Later, by the drinks table, he cornered me. “You planned this whole thing, didn’t you?”

I sipped my champagne and said calmly, “No, Tyler. You planned it when you told me I wasn’t worth new clothes. I just adapted.”

“It was a joke,” he whispered desperately. “I didn’t mean it.”

“And I didn’t mean to realize how little you valued me,” I replied. “But here we are.”

Six months later, everything had changed. Tyler lost his job. My career was thriving. He tried to win me back with gifts—clothes, jewelry, even a car. But it was too late.

The day he dismissed me like I was nothing broke something inside me that no apology could fix.

Now my closet is full of clothes that fit the woman I’ve become. And Tyler? He’s the one left standing in shame, finally realizing what he threw away.

The choice is mine now—do I forgive him, or do I walk away for good?