Betrayal is one of the most devastating feelings, and it’s even worse when it comes from a close family member.
That’s exactly what happened to me, Josie. I was utterly crushed when my son lied to me.
As a devoted mother, I decided to give my house to my son and his young wife so they could comfortably start a family. But things took a turn that I never would have expected in a million years. I’m sharing my story to seek advice.
Here’s My Story
I live alone in a 3-bedroom house. My recently married son kept telling me it was the perfect home to start a family, so I ended up giving it to them and moved in with my widowed sister.
Yesterday, my son dropped a bombshell. “Mom, my mother-in-law is moving in with us,” he said casually.
I was shocked and replied, “I didn’t leave my home for her to live there with you.”
My daughter-in-law chimed in, “We lied about starting a family right away. We’re not ready yet; we’re too young. But my mom is alone. We have a big house now, so she will come live with us.”
I was furious. “I don’t agree to this arrangement,” I told her firmly. “It is still technically my house.”
My son then said, “My mother-in-law needs us more than you do. She’s my family too now, and I have to take care of her.”
I felt betrayed and heartbroken. What should I do?