Engagements are usually full of love and excitement, but for one woman, her fiancé’s shocking behavior completely shattered the joy of her upcoming wedding.
A 22-year-old woman, deeply in love with her 25-year-old fiancé, believed he was the perfect match. He had proposed to her eight months ago, and together they planned a small wedding, which was now just two days away. Everything seemed perfect, like a dream about to come true.
But then, just before the big day, her fiancé made a request so outrageous that it left her questioning everything. She couldn’t believe what she was hearing.
He wanted his father to inspect her hymen in front of his brothers and uncles to confirm she was a virgin.
“I am a virgin, and so is he,” she explained. “He wanted to wait until marriage, and I agreed.”
At first, she thought it was a bad joke when he mentioned it earlier. “He told me before that in his family, the father checks the bride’s virginity the night before the wedding. I thought it was a joke.”
But now, she realized he was completely serious. According to him, this bizarre and humiliating tradition was part of his family’s customs. The father had to check the bride’s virginity the night before the wedding to ensure she was “pure.”
The woman felt sick with discomfort and confusion. How could the man she loved ask something so outrageous of her? She thought about their love, their plans, and the future they had envisioned. But this request left her reeling, and she wasn’t sure she could go through with it. Yet, her fiancé stood firm in his demand.
“If you really love me, this will prove it,” he told her, making her feel like she was the one who had something to prove. “If you’re truly a virgin, you have nothing to hide.”
The words hit her like a ton of bricks. She was stunned. How could he think this way? Why was he trying to test her love with something so degrading? Feeling heartbroken and confused, she ran out of the house, tears streaming down her face. She almost called off the wedding right then and there, but her feelings for him were strong, and part of her still longed to be a part of his family.
That night, she stayed at her friend’s house, trying to process everything. She barely slept, tossing and turning, replaying the conversation in her mind. Could she really marry someone who would demand something like this? The next morning, with a heavy heart, she decided to confront him again.
She met her fiancé and stood her ground. “I won’t do it. You need to respect my decision,” she told him, hoping he would understand.
But instead of backing down, he doubled down. “This has to happen,” he insisted. “It’s part of our tradition. If you refuse, it makes me think you’re hiding something. Are you lying about being a virgin?”
She couldn’t believe what she was hearing. He was accusing her of being dishonest, twisting her refusal into something shameful. She remained calm, trying to reason with him, but the more she spoke, the angrier he became. His face turned red with frustration, and he began raising his voice.
“You’re making a big deal out of nothing! If you have nothing to hide, just do it!” he shouted, his patience wearing thin.
Her heart sank as she realized that the man she loved, the man she had thought would always protect her, was not the person she had believed him to be. She had hoped that their love would be enough to make him stand up to his family, but instead, he was turning against her.
Then, in a shocking moment of anger, he slapped her across the face.
The world seemed to freeze for a moment. The pain of the slap was nothing compared to the pain in her heart. She stared at him, stunned and heartbroken. The man she loved had become violent, and she realized with finality that this wasn’t someone she could spend her life with.
“I don’t need to prove anything to you,” he snarled, as if her refusal had made her less in his eyes.
It was the last straw. Tears welled up in her eyes, but she refused to let them fall in front of him. Without another word, she turned and walked away, her decision made. There would be no wedding.
Heartbroken, she went to stay with her friend to begin processing the nightmare that had unfolded.
When she shared her story online, many were shocked and horrified. Some even doubted it was real, thinking it was too shocking to be true. But she confirmed that every part of it had happened, leaving readers stunned at the toxic family tradition and the fiancé who had turned into someone she could no longer trust.
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Kick that boy to the curb along with the rest of the males in that sick family!!!!