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My Colleague Asked Me Out on a Date—I Should Have Said No

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For years, I had admired Daniel from a distance. He was the head of our department—handsome, confident, and effortlessly charming. Whenever he entered a room, people naturally gravitated toward him. His presence commanded attention, and his easy smile had a way of making people feel special.

“Earth to Cindy,” my best friend, Margo, would often tease, snapping her fingers in front of my face whenever she caught me staring. “You know he’s way out of your league, right?”

I’d sigh because, deep down, I knew she was right. Daniel always brought dates to office functions—tall, elegant women who looked like they had stepped right off a magazine cover. Meanwhile, I was… well, me. At 32, I had long since made peace with my body, but the judgmental stares from others never made it easy.

Then, one Tuesday afternoon, my entire world flipped upside down.

I was working late, poring over quarterly reports, when a shadow appeared over my desk. I looked up and nearly dropped my pen. It was Daniel, leaning casually against my cubicle wall, his signature woodsy cologne filling the air.

“Working late again?” he asked, his smile revealing perfect teeth.

I nodded, my mouth suddenly dry.

“You know, Cindy, I’ve noticed how dedicated you are,” he continued. “Want to grab dinner after work tomorrow? You deserve a break.”

My heart nearly stopped. “Dinner? With you?”

He chuckled. “Unless you’d rather eat with someone else?”

“No! I mean, yes. Dinner sounds great!” The words tumbled out before my brain could catch up.

“Perfect. Luigi’s at seven?” He smiled before walking away, leaving me frozen in disbelief.

As soon as he was out of sight, I grabbed my phone and called Margo.

“You won’t believe what just happened!” I blurted out.

“What? Did you finally figure out that spreadsheet error?” she asked, her kids screaming in the background.

“Daniel asked me out!”

Silence. Then, an ear-piercing squeal. “ARE YOU SERIOUS? Department head Daniel? The one with the butt that won’t quit?!”

“The very same.”

“Oh, this is huge! I’m bringing over my blue dress. You know, the one that makes even my post-twins body look good.”

The next day felt like the longest day of my life. Daniel acted normal during the morning meeting, but when our eyes met, he gave me a small smile, confirming that it wasn’t just my imagination.

That evening, I arrived at Luigi’s fifteen minutes early, wearing Margo’s dress. The maitre’d led me to a cozy corner table. I ordered water and waited. And waited. And waited some more.

“More water?” the waiter asked for the third time, pity in his eyes.

“He’s just running late,” I mumbled.

By 7:30, my napkin was torn into tiny shreds. Just as I was about to give up, the waiter returned with a folded note.

“This was left for you at the front desk,” he said.

My hands trembled as I unfolded it, hoping for an apology or an explanation.

Instead, my stomach dropped as I read:

“Stand up and go to the bathroom. When you open the door, lock it behind you ;)”

My blood ran cold.

This wasn’t the Daniel I had admired for years. This was crude. Disrespectful. Was this what he thought of me? That I was so desperate I’d agree to a bathroom hookup on a first date?

Anger burned away the disappointment. I marched toward the bathroom, ready to tell him exactly what I thought of his “offer.”

But nothing could have prepared me for what I saw.

Daniel stood inside with two men from the marketing department. One of them held up a phone, recording me. They were laughing.

“That’s it. The bet’s over. I did it,” Daniel announced, looking past me at his friends.

“A bet?” My voice barely made it past the lump in my throat.

Daniel shrugged. “Nothing personal.”

With that, he brushed past me, still laughing. His friends followed, filming as they walked away.

I stood frozen, their laughter echoing in my ears long after they had gone.

Humiliated, I went home and curled into bed. But the nightmare wasn’t over.

The next morning, my phone buzzed nonstop. My heart sank as I opened the work group chat.

Daniel had shared the video.

“Didn’t take much convincing.😏”

Tears blurred my vision. He was making me look desperate.

I called in sick, unable to face my coworkers. The next day, I did the same. But on the third morning, my phone rang.

Mr. Reynolds. The company owner.

“Cindy,” his voice was unreadable. “Be in the office within the hour. Or clean out your desk.”

My stomach twisted. “Yes, sir.”

When I arrived, I was led into the main conference room. To my shock, the entire company was assembled. Daniel sat near the front, smirking.

Mr. Reynolds stood next to a projector screen. The moment he saw me, he spoke. “Now that we’re all here, I want to address something.”

The screen flickered to life. There it was—the video. Gasps filled the room.

Then, to my surprise, Mr. Reynolds laughed.

“Who here thinks this video is funny? Be honest. Raise your hand.”

Daniel and six others raised their hands.

Mr. Reynolds’ expression darkened. “And who thinks this is disgusting, unprofessional behavior that has no place in our company?”

Slowly, hands went up. Five. Ten. Then nearly the entire room.

“Everyone who found this funny,” Mr. Reynolds’ voice turned ice-cold, “please collect your things. You no longer work here.”

Silence.

Daniel paled. “What? You can’t be serious. It was just a joke!”

“Harassment isn’t a joke,” Mr. Reynolds said. “Security will escort you out.”

One by one, Daniel and his friends were led away.

Mr. Reynolds turned to me. “Ms. Wilson, I owe you an apology. This should never have happened.”

“Thank you,” I whispered, still stunned.

He nodded. “We now have a vacant department head position. Based on your performance and the respect you clearly command, I’d like to offer it to you.”

I blinked. “You want me to replace Daniel?”

“I want the most qualified person for the job. And that’s you.”

Tears welled in my eyes. From invisible to department head in three days.

“Do you accept?”

I thought of all the times I had felt small. Then, I thought about the difference I could make in this role.

I lifted my chin. “Yes. I accept.”

For the first time, I realized I had never been invisible. I had just been looking for validation from the wrong people.