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My Winter Boots Were Worn Out, but My Husband Refused to Buy Me New Ones and Said, ‘I Decide How My Money Is Spent’

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The winter hit harder than usual, and this time, my boots finally gave up on me after five long years. The soles cracked, cold water seeped in, and even wearing two pairs of socks couldn’t keep my feet warm anymore. As a full-time mom, I was constantly running around taking care of the kids, while my husband, Greg, worked a steady job at a tech company.

One day, I asked Greg if we could get me a new pair of boots. But when I brought it up, he looked at me like I’d just asked him to buy me a yacht. “My mom needs a microwave for Christmas. You can wait until next year,” he said, as if that was the most reasonable thing in the world.

I was stunned. “Greg, these boots are falling apart! I can’t wait until next year.”

He just waved his hand dismissively, his face all smug. “I said no, Lauren. I decide how my money is spent.”

That’s when I had had enough. I wasn’t going to play the martyr anymore. I was done with the whole “sacrificing everything” routine. It was time for Greg to see the consequences of his actions.

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I took the microwave out of the box, carefully unwrapped it, and replaced it with my old, beat-up boots. Then, I wrapped the box up again in the shiny paper Greg had used and added a glittery bow on top for extra flair.

Christmas morning came, and Greg’s mom, Sharon, arrived in her fur coat, smelling of expensive Chanel No. 5. It was impossible not to notice how fancy she looked. Greg, all proud, handed her the big box with a smile. “Here you go, Mom. Merry Christmas!”

Sharon wasted no time tearing through the wrapping. But when she pulled out my old, battered boots, her face twisted in shock. She held them up like they were a dead animal, her mouth dropping open.

“What on earth is this?” she screeched. “Where’s the microwave?”

I sat back in my chair, sipping my coffee like nothing was wrong. “Oh, I decided to sell the microwave and use the money for something more practical,” I said, feeling calm but secretly enjoying the moment.

Greg’s face turned bright red. “You embarrassed me in front of my mom! What were you thinking?”

I stood up, my voice steady. “I was thinking about how I’ve been walking around with frozen toes while you’re playing Santa for someone who doesn’t even need a new microwave.” I turned to Sharon, who was still holding the boots like they were going to attack her. “Maybe you should try walking a mile in my shoes. Literally.”

Sharon sputtered, her face turning bright pink. “I don’t know what kind of stunt you’re pulling, Lauren, but this is completely inappropriate! This was supposed to be my gift from my son!”

“Well, your son is prioritizing your whims over his wife’s basic safety,” I shot back.

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The room went silent after that. Greg and I were locked in a staring contest, his anger practically radiating from him. Sharon quickly left, telling us she’d see us later that evening. As soon as the door closed, Greg stormed out too.

It had been an ugly scene, but honestly, I didn’t regret it. I felt a small pang of guilt for ruining their Christmas exchange, but it had to be done.

I didn’t sell the microwave, though. I tucked it away under the kitchen sink, planning to bring it to Sharon’s house later.

When I got to Sharon’s place with the kids, I was surprised to find Greg sitting on her couch, looking guilty. Word had obviously spread because Doreen, Greg’s sister, immediately ran up to me, giving me a hug.

“Good for you, girl!” she whispered in my ear. “I couldn’t believe it when Mom told me, but I had to say something. And I even chewed Greg out when he showed up here alone.”

I hugged her back, smiling. “Does the rest of the family know?”

She grinned brightly. “Oh yeah. Mom told everyone as soon as they arrived. They’ve all given Greg a piece of their minds. I’ve never laughed so hard in my life!” she added with a wink.

Dinner was great, but Greg was uncharacteristically quiet, avoiding my eyes. By the time the evening ended, I gave Sharon the microwave, and she hugged me tightly. “I’m so sorry about what happened earlier. I’m working on being less materialistic. I hope you can forgive me,” she said, her voice warm with sincerity.

I forgave her, and as a little peace offering, she sent me and the kids home with most of the delicious leftovers from dinner.

Greg, however, avoided me all the way home. I couldn’t help but feel disappointed. I thought maybe he’d learn a lesson, but it didn’t seem like it.

A few days later, I decided I needed to take matters into my own hands. I sold some things online and combined the money with what I’d received from Christmas cards. Then, I walked into a store and bought myself a beautiful pair of warm winter boots.

When I walked in the door hours later, Greg stood in the middle of the living room. The moment he saw my new boots, his face darkened.

“Where’d you get the money for those?” he asked, his voice tight.

I smiled, slipping off the boots. “Oh, I decided how my money is spent. Do you have a problem with that?”

Greg’s face twisted into a frown. “Yes… well, no. It’s just that…” he trailed off, clearly struggling with something.

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He then pulled a small gift box from under the tree. It hadn’t been there earlier. “I went out and bought this,” he said with a shrug. “It took me a while, and my pride got in the way, but I was wrong, baby. Can you forgive me?”

I took the box from him, excitement bubbling inside. I already knew what was inside – a pair of boots, far more expensive than the ones I’d bought.

I hugged Greg, a wave of warmth washing over me. I think I might’ve fallen in love with him all over again that winter. He’d finally started treating me like he did when we first fell in love.

Still, I knew I needed to be more independent. I opened my own bank account and started a small side business at home. I wasn’t going to stop being a stay-at-home mom, but having a little financial freedom felt like the right move for me.

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